Dissociation
Depersonalisation-Derealisation Disorder
Persistent feelings of being detached from yourself, or of the world being unreal, foggy or dreamlike.
What it can feel like
- Feeling like an observer of your own thoughts or body
- The world seeming flat, distant or artificial
- Emotional numbness
- Hyperawareness of your own thinking
- Distress about the sensation itself
Not everyone has every symptom, and you do not need a label to deserve support.
Things that help
01
Stop monitoring it
Constant checking of 'am I real right now' fuels the loop. Let it be present without inspecting it.
02
Engage the senses outwardly
Strong sensations such as cold water, a strong taste or brisk movement help re-anchor attention outward.
03
Reduce the triggers
Sleep loss, caffeine, alcohol and heavy stress all raise the intensity.
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It is common and treatable. Speak to a GP if it persists, as it often accompanies anxiety, trauma or depression that can be treated directly.