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Dissociation

Depersonalisation-Derealisation Disorder

Persistent feelings of being detached from yourself, or of the world being unreal, foggy or dreamlike.

What it can feel like

  • Feeling like an observer of your own thoughts or body
  • The world seeming flat, distant or artificial
  • Emotional numbness
  • Hyperawareness of your own thinking
  • Distress about the sensation itself

Not everyone has every symptom, and you do not need a label to deserve support.

Things that help

01

Stop monitoring it

Constant checking of 'am I real right now' fuels the loop. Let it be present without inspecting it.

02

Engage the senses outwardly

Strong sensations such as cold water, a strong taste or brisk movement help re-anchor attention outward.

03

Reduce the triggers

Sleep loss, caffeine, alcohol and heavy stress all raise the intensity.

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When to reach for more support

It is common and treatable. Speak to a GP if it persists, as it often accompanies anxiety, trauma or depression that can be treated directly.

Often looked at together